Thursday, January 15, 2009

Friday Five: Take Me, Baby, or Leave Me

Okay, it's still Thursday. (Hey, guess what? It's my birthday!) But I'm gone at an all-day meeting tomorrow, so I'm doing the Friday Five early.

Five things people should know about me...

1. Yes, I am a pastor; and no, that's not the only thing I am.

I know pastors who think of themselves most fundamentally in that way: as pastors. Part of me admires the fullness of that commitment. And part of me thinks there's something wrong with that single-mindedness. Yes, I am a pastor. I love being a pastor. But I also love being a daughter, and a wife, and a friend, and a reader, and a goofy dancer in my underwear at home (oops! too much there) and a lot of other things. I find that people often talk about nothing else but church around me. Mostly, that makes me want to scream: I CARE ABOUT OTHER THINGS THAN CHURCH FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, DON'T YOU WATCH GREY'S ANATOMY OR LOST OR READ NEWSWEEK OR SOMETHING, ANYTHING ELSE WE COULD TALK ABOUT? PLEASE?

2. I love teaching.

Worship, too. I love that. But teaching - there's just something about helping people understand at a new level, or watching them put some pieces together, or helping open up a piece of scripture in a new way. That's good stuff.

3. I actually enjoy cleaning the bathroom.

It's weird. I am aware. But I enjoy the "it's clean, it looks clean, it smells clean, and I did that in only 20 minutes" aspect of housecleaning. It's a good antedote to pastoral work, which isn't particularly results-based. I do enjoy planting seeds. But every once in awhile, it's nice to see some growth. And I like things to be clean. Insofar as this is possible.

4. I don't hike. Or camp.

I realize this will horrify many people, especially in the nature-loving area of the country I call home. Too bad. This is an anonymous blog, and I feel like being honest. I don't like hiking. I've never really been camping, and I have no desire to go. I have no shame about this.

5. I am an introvert.

A surprising number of pastors are, as I understand it. I've gotten much better about being extroverted when I need to be over the past ten years. But when it comes down to it, I need alone time. Doesn't have to be much, but I do need it. I love reading and knitting and all kinds of interior, quiet things. I struggle to balance the needs of an introvert and the demands of pastor-work, but so far it's going okay.

17 comments:

Processing Counselor said...

I don't hike or camp either and I'm a counselor yet I'm really really an introvert, too. Go figure? Thanks for playing.

Diane M. Roth said...

I'm an introvert, too. and I like (not love) cleaning the bathroom.

Unknown said...

Bathrooms can be very satisfying to clean!
Happy Birthday to you!!

Auntie Knickers said...

Happy Birthday, hope no one tries to make you go camping! In my and Songbird's denomination anyway, when we call a minister it is as "pastor and teacher" and the teaching part, I agree, is really, really important.

Anonymous said...

happy birthday!

fabulous play! i especially appreciate and relate to your thoughts on being a pastor (#1)--and yes, do watch Grey's Anatomy and Lost! we should talk!

wonderful play--thank you!

revcrystalk (revcrystalk.wordpress.com)

DogBlogger said...

Please, please, please come clean my bathroom!

Happy Birthday!

RevDrKate said...

Great answers and I totally agree about not just being ANY one thing! Happy birthday.

Silent said...

We sound much alike. I love doing laundry though--the bathroom, not so much!

Choralgrrl said...

Happy birthday! :-)

Annie's Mom said...

Happy Birthday!!! And good play!

Julie said...

I'm with you on #1,3,4, and 5. Perhaps we were separated at birth?! Hope you had a great birthday! :)

Joan Calvin said...

I'm an introvert too and I do enjoy cleaning the bathroom. And I truly hate telling people I'm a pastor because they get so goofy as if I don't have a real life either.

Sally said...

:-) # 1!!! Yes we are also human.... well said.

esperanza said...

Also an introvert. And I love to clean the kitchen for the same reasons you love to clean the bathroom. Perhaps we could work out some sort of barter?

esperanza said...

Oh, and I like hiking but hate camping. So I need to hike somewhere I can get back from in the same day.

Young Seeker said...

I hope the all day meeting was productive and not the kind that will later be compared to a hiking trip ;)
Sendin' birthday wishes to a fellow "clean bathroom fan" :D

MumPastor said...

Nice to get to know you here! I love to clean my bathroom too...it is satisfying and small! great play!